Gabriel Gonsalves is a Heart Leadership & Mastery Coach, spiritual teacher, and artist dedicated to helping people awaken their hearts, live authentically, and lead with purpose and joy.
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Are you a rescuer or a companion? The difference matters
Published about 1 month ago • 2 min read
There are moments in life when the weight of emotional pain becomes almost unbearable. Times when even breathing feels like climbing a mountain. Perhaps you've been there – or maybe you're there right now – where well-meaning advice rings hollow and staying positive seems impossible.
Drawing from my own experience and years of heart-centered coaching, I offer practical guidance both for those navigating difficult times and those called to be companions for others in pain. You'll discover:
Why being present matters more than trying to fix
How to reach out when you're hurting
The sacred art of holding space for another's pain
The difference between being a rescuer and a companion
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In a world that often rushes to fix, solve, and move past or avoid pain, choosing to be present – whether for yourself or others – is a radical act of love. When you’re the one hurting, remember that reaching out isn’t weakness; it’s an act of profound courage and trust in both yourself and others.
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Gabriel Gonsalves is a Heart Leadership & Mastery Coach, spiritual teacher, and artist dedicated to helping people awaken their hearts, live authentically, and lead with purpose and joy.
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