The Dark Side of Following Your Heart


We've all heard it: “Follow your heart.” It sounds simple, profound, and somehow sacred. But after nearly twenty years of studying heart wisdom and teaching others how to access their intuitive guidance, I've discovered a darker truth: this well-meaning advice isn't always right.

In this week's article, I'm pulling back the curtain on the shadow side of heart-based decisions. Drawing from neuroscience, ancient wisdom traditions, and real-world experience, I'll reveal when following your heart can lead you astray - and what to do instead. You'll discover:

  • Three surprising stories of people who found their true path by doing the opposite of what their “heart” initially told them
  • A practical framework that combines ancient spiritual wisdom with modern scientific understanding to help you make better decisions
  • How to develop reliable heart wisdom through small experiments rather than dramatic life changes

Whether you're facing a major life decision or simply want to develop more reliable intuitive intelligence, you'll learn how to access your heart's wisdom with the reverence of a mystic and the precision of a researcher.

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Join me Today, Wednesday at 12pm US EST

Join me today, Wednesday, February 26th at 12 PM US EST for a brand new Global Hearstream Meditation. Please stop by to say hello, and let's tune in, connect, and energize our hearts during these challenging times!

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If you speak Spanish, join us for Directo al Corazón, the Spanish version of the Global Heart Stream, also happening TODAY, at 2 PM Spain time! Watch Here


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Recommendations

For those seeking music that opens the heart and quiets the mind, I'm delighted to share my friend and mentor Adrian Freedman's new album, “One Thousand Petals.”

“One Thousand Petals” Album

His new album is a beautiful blend of world music and spiritual influences, with an incredible lineup of contributing artists. His collaboration with Deva Premal is superb. I promise you it will be worth a listen!
Listen to the Music →​

Also, my friends at iAwake Technologies have just released a new series of meditations based on the Enneagram.

Enneagram Meditations

This exciting new brain Enneagram Meditations, a co-production with Enneagram master Leslie Hershberger, will help you grow in knowledge and compassion not only for yourself, but also give you a better understanding of others.
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This Week's Quote


That's it for this week!

Wishing you a fantastic rest of the week.

From my heart to yours,


Finally, when you're ready, here are 3 ways I can help:

1. Living from the Heart: Embark on the path of wholehearted living and awaken the love, wisdom, and power of your heart. Learn the foundational principles and practices of Heart-Centered living, explore the pillars for creating optimal heart health, and cultivate inner well-being with this self-pace course. Enroll in this foundational course here.

2. Are you an organizational leader, coach, wellness professional, and purpose-driven entrepreneur who wants to feel more connected to the Divine, live in greater alignment with your life's purpose and make a profound impact in the world? Begin your coaching journey here.

3. Join the Heart Mastery Circle: Join our transformative group learning program for weekly support and guidance on following your heart, realigning with your life purpose, managing your emotions, and creating a life you love. Signup for the Heart Mastery Circle here.


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