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The Halo Effect: Why Your First Impressions Are Almost Always Wrong

Published about 2 months ago • 2 min read

Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone because of their charm, attractiveness, or a single positive trait, only to later discover that your initial impression was wrong? This common cognitive bias, known as the Halo Effect, can lead you astray in your personal and professional life. In my latest article, I explore how, as a heart-centered leader — someone who prioritizes authenticity, compassion, and connection — it's crucial to understand and overcome this bias. By becoming aware of the Halo Effect and learning to see beyond surface-level qualities, you can foster deeper connections, make better decisions, and inspire others to lead with their hearts.

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The Halo Effect: What It Is, Why It Misleads Us, and How to Overcome It

If you find someone attractive or likable, you might automatically assume they are also intelligent, kind, or trustworthy, even without evidence to support these beliefs. This bias can set you up for failure and have far-reaching consequences.

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The Feeling Heart

Gabriel Gonsalves

Gabriel Gonsalves is a Heart Leadership & Mastery Coach, spiritual teacher, and artist dedicated to helping people awaken their hearts, live authentically, and lead with purpose and joy.

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