This Week in Heart Mastery: Vulnerability and Radical Self Love


Dear Reader,

I'm sending you this weekly update from the town of Monchique, Portugal, where I'm attending a music retreat for facilitators and ceremonial leaders. The retreat focuses on healing the parts of ourselves that keep us from expressing ourselves fully and authentically.

We've just completed the first two days, and it's already been deeply transformative. The work we're doing is based on IFS (Internal Family Systems), a therapeutic framework for understanding, embracing, and integrating all the hidden parts of ourselves.

While in ceremony, I was able to connect with a five-year-old version of myself that felt unseen and ashamed for being different from other children my age. It's a part of me I'm starting to embrace and fully acknowledge as I'm getting ready to share my music with the world.

I'm sharing this with you to offer a glimpse into my inner world and the true essence of vulnerability, which has been the main theme for the week.


🔴 Invitation: Join Me Live for Sunday's Heartstream

This Week's Theme: Why Vulnerability Feels Impossible (When You Most Crave It)

Have you ever said you want intimacy, but the moment someone gets close, you find ways to push them away? In this Heartstream, I share why smart, accomplished people struggle with emotional closeness and three practices you can use immediately to build authentic connection—even when your nervous system screams danger.

  • When: Sunday, December 7th at 8:00 AM Pacific / 11:00 AM Eastern / 5:00 PM CEST
  • Where: Live on my YouTube Channel (@GabrielGonsalves)

Join the Heartstream Live Tomorrow (Set a Reminder)


🌿 The Week in Heart Mastery: Your Practice Round-up

Here are the key teachings and practices I've cooked up for you:

🎧 1. Guided Meditation: Radical Self-Love

This meditation is designed to help you cultivate a deep and unconditional love for yourself, embracing all aspects of who you are with kindness, compassion, and acceptance. By regularly practicing this meditation, you can experience profound shifts in your relationship with yourself and others, leading to a greater sense of self-worth, fulfillment, and joy in your life.

Listen to Radical Self-Love (YouTube)

📖 2. Deep Dive on “The Truth About Intimacy: Why We Avoid It Like the Plague and How to Finally Let Others In.”

Earlier this week, I shared an article about what intimacy truly means beyond the surface definitions, why your deepest fears compel you to run from it, and the three essential steps to building authentic connection even when your nervous system screams danger. If you struggle with intimacy, this article will get you through.

Read the Full Deep-Dive Article (Blog)


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Wishing you a restful and inspiring weekend.

From my heart to yours,

—Gabriel


The Feeling Heart

Gabriel Gonsalves is a Heart Leadership & Mastery Coach, spiritual teacher, and artist dedicated to helping people awaken their hearts, live authentically, and lead with purpose and joy.

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