Why Family Estrangement Happens - and How to Heal


March 19, 2025 | Granada, Spain

Dear Reader,

Have you ever felt the piercing pain of watching someone you love become a stranger?

Family estrangement is one of life’s most profound heartaches, yet it remains shrouded in silence and shame. Beneath this painful phenomenon lies a constellation of unmet needs, unhealed wounds, and unexpressed truths.

In my latest article, “When Hearts Grow Distant: Understanding and Healing Family Estrangement,” we’ll explore:

  • The hidden reasons children distance themselves from parents
  • A compassionate framework for understanding estrangement
  • 7 actionable steps to begin healing fractured relationships

Whether you’re experiencing this in your own family or deeply curious about repairing relationships, this article provides insights and tools to guide you.

Click here to read the article in full


Join me later today for our global heart meditation

Our weekly live meditation sessions continue today, Wednesday, March 19, if you'd like to join us:

As always, these YouTube Live sessions are a chance for us to connect, say hello, and unify our hearts in meditation. Whether you're a regular or first-timer, come experience the feeling of inner calm that emerges when we practice together. Can't make it today? The recordings will remain available on my channel afterward.


New guide to Heart Mastery

I’m excited to share “What is Heart Mastery?”, a comprehensive guide that explores the transformative journey of living from your heart’s wisdom. In it, I dive into the stages of Heart Mastery, the nine essential skills for heart-centered leadership, and how embodying your heart’s intelligence can profoundly impact your relationships, career, and sense of purpose.

Whether you’re just beginning your journey or looking to deepen your connection with your heart, this guide provides practical insights and tools to help you align with your authentic self. You can check it out here: What is Heart Mastery?.


Something I learned recently…

While reading Linda Tucker’s Mystery of the White Lions, I learned about Twasa, the process through which sangomas (traditional healers in South Africa) receive their calling. This often begins with an illness or crisis that has no known cure, propelling the individual on a journey of self-healing. Through this transformative process, they awaken their unique gift of healing and step into their role as “wounded healers.”

This powerful tradition highlights how deep struggles can hold the seeds of transformation. If you’re curious to learn more, I highly recommend Tucker’s book: Mystery of the White Lions.


Heart wisdom


This week's practice

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Reconnect With Joy
If you’re looking for a simple yet powerful way to reconnect with joy, I invite you to try my Finding True Joy Meditation. This practice will help you gently dissolve the walls around your heart and rediscover your natural state of joy. Watch it here.



That’s it for this week—thanks for being a subscriber. Please take care, stay connected to your heart, and I’ll talk to you again soon.

From my heart to yours,

—Gabriel


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Gabriel Gonsalves is a Heart Leadership & Mastery Coach, spiritual teacher, and artist dedicated to helping people awaken their hearts, live authentically, and lead with purpose and joy.

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